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So, you’ve noticed a hottie at the gym and have a crush on them, but you’re not sure if the feeling is mutual. You’ve caught them looking at you a few times, and they’ll engage in small talk with you every once in a while, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re into you. They might just be a nice person and treat everyone like that. It’s good to be cautious because the last thing you want to do is ask them out on a date and make a fool of yourself....

You’re just starting to get to know each other. Everything feels exciting and maybe even a little scary. The good news is that asking the right questions can definitely elevate your dynamic to the next level. But what are some cute questions to ask your crush? And how do you ask those questions without seeming over-the-top or weird? You’re probably already exchanging messages nonstop, and you’re likely flirting here and there....

To be human is to feel pain; we are all hurt emotionally sometimes. However, not everyone expresses their feelings so openly. Men, in particular, can be guarded when they’re hurt. Instead of telling you when they feel hurt, they may withdraw, lash out, or act in other strange ways. These reactions can be frustrating and confusing. But it’s important to know both the subtle and clear signs that a man is hurt emotionally....

That statement could be further expanded to say that a narcissist loves to be hated, hates to be loved, and also loves to hate. of “Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited”. Who do they hate? They hate you. They hate you if you criticize them or have a different opinion from theirs, they hate you if you are successful in any sort of way, they hate you if you are a woman, and they hate you if you tell them you love them....

It’s never been easier to tell a girl how you feel. With just a few taps on your phone, you can send a romantic text message to anyone in the world- no matter how busy you are or how far apart you live from one another. But, at the same time, it’s more important than ever to be genuine and intentional when talking to a girl. It isn’t enough to just send her generic platitudes or empty sweet nothings....

You were more than happy to remain friends with your ex-boyfriend after you broke up. There were no hard feelings when the relationship ended, it just wasn’t meant to be. You’ve both moved on, you’ve got a new partner and so has he. You hoped you’d be able to go on double dates and enjoy each other’s company. But things are not working out as you’d hoped, because his new girlfriend acts weird any time you’re around her....

Want to learn how to save your marriage when you feel hopeless? I can imagine what you feel right now—it must be like you’re the only one trying to make your marriage work, and you’re going nowhere. To break out of the downward spiral you’re in right now, you’ll need a strategic approach—and that’s what this article is about. Follow the step-by-step process below to see if your marriage is worth saving, how to save it, and what to do if you can’t....

Certainly, all relationships have challenges. But being married to a narcissistic husband can be a very complicated and thorny journey. A narcissistic husband can be vain, insensitive to your needs, violent, and exceptionally critical of you. Living with a person like that can be destructive and demoralizing. It can leave you feeling confused and hurt by their seemingly incomprehensible actions. Theoretically, it is possible to negotiate a relationship with a narcissistic individual; but keep in mind that most narcissists are unlikely to recognize or take responsibility for needing to adjust the current unhealthy relationship....

It is very common for people to stay in a relationship that’s been broken, so much that things take a very unhealthy turn which drains and consumes both partners. It takes time to make a decision and it can be difficult to act upon that decision, especially if it is a long-term relationship. It is understandable, because we’re meant to create bonds, not break them (biologically and psychologically speaking). You’re understood, and you’ve heard....

Happy marriages entail a mutual level of respect and care for one another. So, when your husband doesn’t value you, it can feel like you’re constantly trying to guess his needs or make him happy. Unfortunately, this difficult dynamic can also make for one-sided marriages. Nobody wants to second-guess their value in a relationship. But if your husband doesn’t care about your well-being, that may be your everyday norm. The relationship can quickly become toxic- and you might feel dissatisfied and depressed....

Are you looking for fun “Yes or No” questions for couples? These questions are the perfect way to get to know your partner better. Your partner’s answers might surprise you and help your relationship grow. We compiled more than 200 of the best yes or no questions to ask your girlfriend or boyfriend. Each of them is a great way to start a conversation. Bookmark this article when you and your partner get into a chatty mood—or share it to spice up a group date....

If you’ve ever been in a relationship with a narcissist and experienced some of the terrible, selfish behaviors that are their trademark, you’ve probably wondered “how do they live with themselves”. The lying, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation must eventually wear on them – no one can be that insensitive to other people’s feelings, right? To answer that question, you have to understand the psychology of a narcissist and how it differs from the average person....

“Should I text my ex happy birthday?” In 90% of cases, the answer would be “no”—meanwhile, in the remaining 10%, the answer could be “yes.” So, in your case, is it OK to text an ex Happy Birthday? Which category does your situation fall under? Let’s break it all down in this article. When is it OK to Text Your Ex Happy Birthday? Why is it OK to text your ex happy birthday only in 10% of situations?...

On the other hand, there are the ones that are determined and despite the pain of missing you they choose not to have you. That’s why in some cases it takes too long to get an ex back, and in some others, it only takes a few hours, days – or at the maximum – weeks. It depends on how your relationship ended, why it ended, and how strong was the connection between you was....

When it’s about lovey-dovey text conversations, there’s a different vibe going on. The texting exchange is so quick sometimes, and so often happening, that you run out of things to discuss. Keeping a conversation going with a guy isn’t the easiest thing to do, but it can be done, especially through text. Keeping a conversation going through text is different from keeping a conversation going in-person with a guy, here’s why:...

If you’re the one to always text him first, then you’re familiar with the heavy weight of a conversation, hell, even a relationship! You’ve got to stop texting him first, take a step back, and allow him to make a move for once. It can surely go both ways. However, it seems that you’re searching to confirm whether he is interested in you or not. Look at these tips to guide you in the right direction!...

Although the classic narcissist is often thought of as charming, boisterous and positive (in public), they can also reflect traits of the passive-aggressive personality. They can be negativistic in outlook, blame others and engage in frequent complaining and whining. Narcissists will tell you that they will do something, but if they don’t want to do it for whatever reason, they won’t- just like the passive-aggressive personality. There are some narcissists who never display the charming, boisterous façade but only the negative personality (along with lack of empathy and other defining characteristics of NPD)....

Keeping a conversation going with a guy, especially if he’s your crush, (or if he seems to be the right person you’re dating) can be difficult, and at times overwhelming. First: let’s accept that it’s ok to feel overwhelmed and not have a clue what to talk about with him, or how to keep a conversation going with him even if it is through text. Second: let’s see what it takes to develop amazing conversational skills....

You’re into him, he’s into you, and the next thing you know he disappears. Now, you start questioning the possibilities of what could’ve caused this situation. His disappearance came as a shock since you thought that things were going well. A lot of ‘Why-s’ and ‘What-s’ are left unanswered. And you start questioning if it had to do anything with you. Don’t fret, dear reader! Here are 16 main reasons he disappeared when he liked you:...

It is quite understandable after having these mixed feelings to feel like the best choice is to reach out to your ex after two weeks. YET, one week, two, or three is a short period to reflect on the breakup and decide what’s the best for you. Meaning, contacting your ex right now it’s not the best idea! The effect of the healing process starts at the end of 30 days and continues thereafter....